love and war coexist for governmental and conglomerate gains. in my mind, love is a systematic way for us to spend money for meaningless material objects. it is also used as another word for population control. if we weren't told to have kids with who we love, we would over populate. im not implying love doesn't exist, but mearly has been construed so that u can pay a company for your love. it may be a nice gesture, but love is in the mind, body, and soul. true love is when you do not buy gifts for each other on valentines day, birthdays, anniversaries,etc. but the company of the one u love should be the ultimate and priceless gift. war, like love, is another word for population control. we spend trillions on war, but what do we receive in return? bloodshed, violence, hate? i believe balance is a flawed idea. why cannot we live in peace without war? have tranquility without disturbance? creation without destruction? love each other without hate? the utopia of our world is not an outlandish idea my fellow humans. we must all provide for each other, regardless if we receive anything out of it. because the main prize is having a society that loves and cares for each other. a society that creates without destroying. it may take a while but i was taught the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.